Dear Maya, I am so sorry that happened to you but thank you for posting it! Many people go to clubs, order a drink and then head off to the dance floor. These days you just cannot do that! While you are dancing with someone, a perv can come along and spike that drink.
Just a few years ago I lived in a 'security building'.........gives a false sense of security. One of the neighbor decided to come into my house when I was in my room and had left the front door open, only the screen door shut. I got home from work and was changing my clothes. I heard the screen door open and shut and quickly put my clothes on, ran out to the living room and there was my neighbor. I had been wary of this man, I would not even go to the pool alone when he was around.
He was tiptoeing around the living/dining area. I asked him what he was doing in my apartment!!!!! He said he was not there! LOL. He spoke no English. I was so upset I yelled at him in Spanish that he was a liar. He put his hands on my shoulders and I flipped....I kneed him in the groin and slapped his face. Then he ran down the stairs and I kicked his butt as he ran. Then I called the cops and the owner of the building. He and his non Spanish speaking American wife (who admitted to me that 'other things' had happened before and pleaded with me to not tell the cops what happened) were evicted immediately.
We really are never safe.