eman-
if its any consolation, we are experiencing extremely long delays, and sometimes very rude treatment as well (my personal experience), just traveling inside the country! the delays, to me, are a very small price to pay for extra security, and im happy to wait them out. as far as the rude treatment, well, i try to give the guys the benefit of the doubt, considering their job is to look for bombs and such all day long.....it would probably put me on edge too. its no fun to deal with though.
of course youll run into the power trip types as well, which stinks. one time, BEFORE 9-11, i was coming across the boarder with my s.o. from canada (at the time we had just met, and she was coming for a visit), and we ran into a power tripper at the boarder who denied us access into the country! the customs agent tore through all of her bags, questioned us for over an hour, and then sent us back into canada to aquire a long list of documents and proof that she was coming back........and the woman let me know that if we tried to cross at any other port without such documentation, i would be arrested for "smuggling canadians".....lol, i didnt even know there was a trade for that. anyhow, point is, most everyone i know has border horror stories, and most of us have had them even being a citizen of the u.s., and even before 9-11.....its only expected that they would be much worse now, and that the rules will only get more stringent for visitors.
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