This is about out beloved Dansk

by mouthy 606 Replies latest jw experiences

  • Billygoat
    Billygoat

    Dansk,

    Doing some research on the diet thing right now. (In between work that is. ) Still looking, but found this for when you go through chemo. Might be helpful.

    Below is a list of common side effects of various cancer treatments, with a list of tips to help you overcome them:

    Loss of Appetite

    • Eat small, more frequent meals. "Just be like a cow and graze," said Linney.
    • Take advantage of times when you're hungriest, usually in the morning.
    • Do some light exercise to stimulate the appetite.
    • Keep ready-to-eat foods on hand at home and on the road. "Bring food with you to snack on while waiting for your appointments," said Linney.
    • Drink oral supplements like Ensure or Carnation Instant Breakfast.
    • If you just can't bring yourself to eat, ask your doctor for appetite stimulants.

    Nausea/Vomiting

    • For foods with a strong smell, like broccoli, try eating them cold or lukewarm.
    • Avoid favorite foods - if you try to eat them and get nauseous, you may forever associate that food with getting sick.
    • Eat dry crackers or toast.
    • Avoid fatty, greasy fried foods.
    • Drink liquid between meals rather than with food.
    • Avoid tight clothing.
    • Keep a log of when you become nauseous. It may help determine what's making you sick.
    • Tart foods or beverages can help settle the stomach.
    • Ask your doctor for anti-nausea medication.

    Mouth & Throat Problems

    • Avoid tart, spicy or acidic foods.
    • Avoid rough, coarse foods that can irritate the throat.
    • Eat foods lukewarm, rather than hot or cold.
    • Puree foods in a blender.
    • Use a straw for drinks or soups.
    • Use anesthetic (numbing) throat sprays or lozenges before eating.
    • Practice good oral hygiene.

    Dry Mouth

    • Frequently sip liquids to moisten mouth.
    • Tart or sweet foods and drinks can help ease dryness.
    • Suck on hard candy or Popsicles, or chew gum.
    • Eat food with gravies and sauces to ease swallowing.
    • Puree foods before eating.
    • Ask your doctor about artificial saliva.

    Change in Taste or Smell

    • Eat foods cold or lukewarm.
    • Rinse your mouth with water, lemonade or ginger ale to decrease bitter taste.
    • Find protein alternatives.
    • Try different foods.
    • Experiment with seasonings.

    Constipation

    • Increase fiber intake.
    • Drink warm beverages.
    • Get some light exercise, which may also stimulate the appetite.
    • Ask your doctor about stool softeners.

    Diarrhea

    • Limit your intake of fiber, high-fat foods, sugar-free items and lactose (dairy) products.
    • Drink lots of fluids.
    • Increase your sodium and potassium sources.
  • Englishman
    Englishman

    You're a brave man, Ian.

    Much love to you and Claire. I so remember us all sitting round In Latte's kitchen, You, Me, Claire and Xena. The atmosphere was so good, maybe you should have lot's more of that?

    Mike.

  • Mulan
    Mulan

    Ian, your attitude is wonderful. My niece's husband who was diagnosed almost 3 years ago, has an almost identical attitude. They have such a wonderful outlook and also Buddhist beliefs. Quite a coincidence don't you think?

    I remember my niece writing to all the family, in a big email, that they will live each day to the full as if it were the only day. And they have. Her husband is 52 and she is 42, and they never had children, so they are still considering having a baby. They are just looking forward only. They are both very health oriented and eat organic foods, no meat ever, and no sugar. They drink green tea, no coffee, no alcohol. She watches his diet like a hawk. So far so good. He doesn't have the same lymphoma you do, but the outlook was just as grim. He is in a full remission now so we are hopeful.

    They had a bad car accident a few weeks ago, and he has a broken collarbone. We are all hoping it doesn't stir something up, with the lymph glands.

    I think about you and Claire every day. Good thoughts are coming your way, from our part of the world.
    Marilyn

  • xenawarrior
    xenawarrior

    ((((((((Ian & Claire)))))))))

    Your courage and your attitude are such an inspiration- you have no idea. I'm sorry you have to go through all of this. You are ever so strong and if and when you find some of that strength waning at times you know you can come here and borrow some from others who truly care about you and your family.

    My thoughts are with you !!

    XW

  • jgnat
    jgnat

    Oh, Ian, I hope you win your battle against this, too.

    My gift for you.

  • kgfreeperson
    kgfreeperson

    Sending healing thoughts and love your way, Ian.

  • Dansk
    Dansk

    Dear All,

    Your messages of support are soooooooo encouraging and I love you all for them! I am truly blessed by having so many friends here.

    Thursday night I had a terrible time trying to sleep. I just kept mulling over my situation. Friday morning it carried on and then right into the afternoon. I ate no breakfast or lunch. My son, Dominic, neither (he knows what the problem is, bless him, and he lost his appetite too). I compounded the problem by reading too much downing information on the internet - and a helpline I called earlier in the week didn't help at all. In other words, nothing (apart from your messages and those of other friends) was really helping. I could see no way out.

    Then, I was directed to a site which spoke of someone who was still alive after 16 years with this disease. He's an exception (at least, an exception that is mentioned on the internet!) compared to the "norm". Why oh why can't doctors be more upbeat? I was told bluntly about my condition (fine, I don't have a problem with that), Claire was as devastated as I was and then we were sent on our way. No offer of counselling, no reference to anyone who had lived more than three years. Nothing really encouraging. The whole situation is shameful.

    Right, now for the good news! In the evening, Claire encouraged me to eat some vegetables (I ate the lot) and I started to come round a bit. Claire works with a lady, Margaret, who is married to a vicar who has cancer of the oesophagus and liver. He was told he'd be dead by Autumn. Claire had telephoned his wife after I'd eaten and later the good vicar, John, telephoned me when he got home. He gave me the most encouraging news that I sorely needed. "DON'T LISTEN TO STATISTICS. I'M A PERSON NOT A STATISTIC!"

    Great attitude. Rather like my own, usually, but I'd been floored. I started to come round more and by the end of the conversation I was my old self again. Doctors attitudes, in the main, leave a lot to be desired and John was living proof that one can fight serious diseases like cancer and lead a normal, IF NOT BETTER, life!

    John told me about the things he does - things that anyone can do - to control cancer and keep it at bay. Happily, I'm already doing some of them, such as having a vegan diet, exercise, thinking positive, etc. John was expected to be literally dying now, but he's far from it. He's my kind of guy and I can't tell you the difference his conversation and your wonderful words have done for my attitude. I SHALL beat this wretched disease and I SHALL be a better person for it

    Right, time for breakfast and then some gardening! It's GREAT to be alive!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Andi, bless you and may God take care of you always. I thank you with every breath I have for what you are trying to do for me. I shall never forget all your hard work on my behalf. I'll contact you by e-mail later. Your caring though you are so far away just shows how love can transcend geographical barriers. I am overcome.

    I send you all my very deepest love. Today is the start of my fight back!!

    Ian

  • Alleymom
    Alleymom
    I was directed to a site which spoke of someone who was still alive after 16 years with this disease. He's an exception (at least, an exception that is mentioned on the internet!) compared to the "norm" ... "DON'T LISTEN TO STATISTICS. I'M A PERSON NOT A STATISTIC!"

    Amen!

  • shera
    shera

    You go Ian!

    Keep up that good outlook!

    Bless you and I have been thinking of you often.

    Heather~

  • Dansk
    Dansk

    Thank you Marjorie & Heather

    I forgot to mention something that made me really laugh this week. We have two young dogs, Rosie 12 months and Sally 6 months. Every morning our son, Dominic, takes the dogs out before bringing them back in and letting them run upstairs. Immediately, Rosie and Sally jump on the bed and start licking Claire and I with great excitement and affection. This particular morning Rosie and Sally jumped on the bed as usual and Sally licked my face all over - before Dominic's voice shouted up "Whatever you do don't let Sally lick you. She's just been sick!"

    Ha Ha Ha Ha Ha Ha Ha Ha Ha

    Ian

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