Zapped In Style By A Dubbie Lady!

by Englishman 30 Replies latest jw friends

  • Englishman
    Englishman

    So there I was, slaving away in a customers front garden, cutting fascias and guttering to size prior to affixing them to his home.

    Like all window and gutter fixers, my clothes are covered with a hundred finger marks where I have used my forefinger to point in the mastic and then just wiped it on the nearest thing to hand, ie, me. I look like I have been the victim of a 1000 seagull bomber raid.

    Then I noticed a couple of ladies going from house to house, slowly working their way towards me. Yup, it's definitely the pioneer crawl all right. They're chattering away to each other, lightly tapping on the doors and waiting an age before leaving for the next house.

    But I'm ready for 'em!

    I've come across this situation a number of times, and this time my rispostes will be incisive and cutting, leaving them gasping for breath at my audacity. I certainly won't tell them I'm DF'd, I'll definitely not tell them my name. In fact I'm not going to tell them that I was ever a witness at all! Heh heh heh.

    Sure enough, they enter the garden where I'm working, where I totally ignore them. Eventually they walk up to me and ask me "If I'm the man around here".

    At close quarters I can see that the lady is a bonny woman. She's well dressed, well spoken and obviously in charge. Probably a CO's wife at least. Gosh. Royalty almost!

    I decide to take the initiative as soon as she has whipped out the magazines. I say: "Ah, your Jehovah's witnesses. I'm not very happy with Jehovah's witnesses. I've had very bad experiences with Jehovah's witnesses".

    The bonny lady just looks at me and raises one critical eyebrow. "Really?" is all that she says.

    I plough on. "Yes, really. My parents gave up all they had in preparation for 1975. My Dad was an air-traffic controller living in a nice house prior to then. Lot's of money coming in too.Then they gave it all up because of 1975, it didn't come and now my Mum is a widow who lives in a council house with no pension, no nothing, just her state pension."

    Bonny lady is totally unmoved, she looks at me pittyingly and says: "We can't be always right about absolutely everything, all the time, you know".

    I'm astonished at this. This not what I expected at all. Now my dander is up: "I just want to get my Mum outa there!"

    Bonny lady looks down on me loftily: "So you want your Mother out, do you? You want to take away from her the suport network with which she is surrounded. You want to take away her social life. You want to take her away from the many friends which she will have accumulated. I think you should think very, very carefully what you would have to offer her as a replacement if you did succeed in taking her away from her brothers and sisters".

    With that, she turned on her heel and stalked away, accompanied by the other, much smaller person.

    My God, she turned me over and then hung me out to dry.

    But you just wait till the next time, Mrs CO wifey....

    Englishman.

  • bebu
    bebu

    My goodness.

    That was a new response... and only works to convict the WT if you look at it closely: it doesn't matter much whether it is the truth or not, now. It only matters that you don't rip your mum out of the deathgrip the WT, a false religion, has put on her.

    She must have felt like she told you something snappy. Especially with her looking like royalty, and you in your grubby clothes.

    (There is a ring of truth in what she said, however. If the witnesses are meeting her spiritual needs even in the most pitiful manner, what can you offer for her to fill the void they would vacate? Or will you try to convince her that her felt spiritual needs are all a figment of her imagination?)

    Good luck with the brain dead...

    bebu

  • Gadget
    Gadget

    Is this admitting they shun people who just leave of their own accord?

  • avishai
    avishai
    "We can't be always right about absolutely everything, all the time, you know".

    What a bitch!!!!! Insensitive, cold, calculating, bitch!!!!!!

  • Elsewhere
    Elsewhere

    Excuse me beotch... before you leave... THAT is exactly why people say that you are a cult. You have socially isolated your members so that leaving will be an extremely traumatic experience. That is the very definition of a high-control cult.

  • itsallgoodnow
    itsallgoodnow

    Almost royalty, so funny! Maybe she had her apostate radar up. They really don't care much about people, do they? I thought the game was to use tactful "reasoning". Even though we know she thinks she's god-like, we can tell she's only human.

  • Shutterbug
    Shutterbug

    I'm afraid she managed to change the subject on you. The subject was the reason your mom has compartive little now (1975). She managed to bring the subject around to the witness support network, which we both know is almost non existant. Bug

  • unbeliever
    unbeliever

    I went to visit my dad before work today and we were sitting on his front porch drinking ice tea and 4 dubs were working his street. I thought oh goody, fresh meat. I did not recognize them. They walked right past his house. He has a really bad reputation. Next time.....

  • HappyDad
    HappyDad

    Englishman,

    What a crock!

    You want to take away from her the suport network with which she is surrounded. You want to take away her social life. You want to take her away from the many friends which she will have accumulated.

    In my experience of over 30 years of this org...........I have never seen "support" for anyone who had to stay in a care home or lengthy hospital stay. What I saw was a short burst of seemingly concern....but then shorty after that......any "concern" interfered with their "field service" time.

    And FRIENDS? What friends? Shallow......conditional friends! I'm fuming!

    HappyDad (Quite pissed now)

  • Englishman
    Englishman

    Mmm. Just love that word. JW's are "concerned" about most things. The word is actually a get-out, it's a way of avoiding an issue by being "concerned" and doing absolutely nothing.

    Englishman.

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