Tink, I noticed when you used to post more, various different older men making revealing comments to you. I felt the same way about it as this idea of grown men drooling over the Olson girls. I wish they would learn that some thoughts would be better left unsaid
flyin - and by all means, i certainly take partial responsibility for that here; i probably should never have had my picture up here in the first place, and on top of that i have a naturally flirtatious personality. as i grow older, i'm learning that i have *some* control over how i am perceived, and i'm weilding that power to my benefit.
however, in real life this is something that i've had to deal with every day for quite some time. when i was about fourteen i used to walk home from school, and i had to stop because there was a man who started following me home every day, and tried to get me to get into his car etc etc etc. and it was AWFUL, and i felt like i was prey being stalked. i imagine if i were mary kate or ashley olson, i'd feel humiliated and appalled by this whole thing.