by skittles4u 34 Replies latest jw friends
I'd do things that would borderline being an "asshole".
hehe, so does my husband.....men!
When I was first dating my husband I did the exact same thing...I hit him with a pillow. He was like, "What did you do that for?" I said, "Lets play!" He didn't quite understand the concept.....hehe, I sure miss those days...now he does the lick my face thing and I can't get him to stop playing....
Desi
Okay, that's just minor. I'd do things that would borderline being an "asshole". On our second date, I deliberately spat on her. Not a huge loogie, but I have the ability to spray my saliva, and I did it to her.
Shit! Ok never mind.
Except maybe pointers on how to use the bed.
Again great ideas, I will definatley have to put some of these into practice.
minus the spitting thing of course.
Some girls are high maintenance, some arn't.
Here's the problem with those that arent high maintenance, sometimes you guys can take that for granted. I cant tell you how many times I've heard a man say about me "Oh she's not your avaerage girl, she doesnt like flowers and perfume, and jewelery, and candles, and all that typical romantic stuff." Hello! News Flash, I think EVERY woman at least once, would like that generic typical romanitic stuff.
If she hasnt been high-maintence PLEASE dont take that for granted. I think Nos does make a good point. Make her feel special, how about YOU cooking a special meal for her. Or do something, that gives her advance notice and tell her you want to take her out on a "date". I think that's exciting when you've been in a relationship for a while. It's not just getting dressed to go out, it's planing for it. Then go out on a "date" and do everything you would have done on a first date. Show her alot of attention, hold her hand, dont look at other women, make her feel so special for the evening.
Listen to what she has to say too. Maybe she has mentioned a new book she really wants to pick up, or a CD or new movie coming to DVD. Maybe her slippers are wearing out and she's mentioned needing new ones. Pay attention to that stuff. Sure women dont always come right out and say what they want, but we sure do drop an awful lot of hints. Then one day before you come home, just pick it up for her. That kind of stuff makes a woman feel special.
p.s. I like Nos pillow fight idea as well.......... nothing says luvin for me like being smacked in the head with a giant pillow.... no seriously :)
Okay, I'll give out the secret behind the whole spitting thing. I knew she was already crazy about me, and I wanted to throw her off a bit. I wanted her to wonder if I really liked her, so I sent her some mixed signals. It was also a bit of a test to see if she had a good sense of humor. She seemed a bit upset, but she got over it. She took it much better than some other women I've flirted with. Now I spit on her accidently. It happens.
Women are interesting creatures. The night I met my fiance, I was making out with some other chick in the same bar. My fiance asked me out 2 days later. I was already dating someone else, but I accepted anyway. I liked dating more than one girl at a time.
So handing her $60 and slapping her butt, then say "go get something special for ya'self" is out?
It's not just getting dressed to go out, it's planing for it. Then go out on a "date" and do everything you would have done on a first date. Show her alot of attention, hold her hand, dont look at other women, make her feel so special for the evening.
Chevy - you are right on the money with this one! I agree completely!
So handing her $60 and slapping her butt, then say "go get something special for ya'self" is out?
It depends if have golf planned that day
So handing her $60 and slapping her butt, then say "go get something special for ya'self" is out?
I think it would be more fun to hand her $5, take her to an unusual store (ie dollar store) and tell her to buy you something that you'll like. Don't forget to get your change back.
I agree Nos' suggestions are good ones. Most women think they want flowers and candies for wooing. What they really want is to feel like you are still trying to get their attention--like when you were first dating. Fun and sponteneity is the key. Teasing is good. Go skating, go for ice cream first thing in the morning instead of breakfast. Peek down her shirt when no one is looking. Pop her with a pillow, give her gag gifts....
All the "romantic" stuff is fine too, but when my hubby buys flowers I'm like "oh flowers, thanks, what do you feel guilty about?" When he does the fun stuff... that's when I'm really crazy about him.
Best piece of advice I ever got from a boyfriend, he told me I should kiss like it's fun, not like it's serious. I think that should apply to the whole relationship. Sure relationships are serious, but we really want them to feel fun.
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