Ah, Alternative, I see that you're another clear thinker.
You can disagree all you want. Your Beulah can disagree all she wants. That's not the issue.
One issue is why the leaders of Jehovah's Witnesses require their followers to render what amounts to idolatrous loyalty to them. A true Christian would run like hell from anyone who approached him and demanded such loyalty.
Does the fact that JW leaders use a subtle, sneaky method of stealing loyalty from God make such stealing any better?
Another issue is why you and your wife would even want to be associated with a religion that demands such unwavering loyalty. And why you would even want to be associated with religious leaders who are not honest with you.
Do you have answers to those questions? Or will you just keep on kissing the cow?
AlanF