Inactive.....had a heart to heart talk with a friend in the parking lot after the Memorial in 1998 and never went back...well, accept to drop my mom off and pick her up at times.
I am just inactive. Have had local brothers in my new home come by, I told them I know where the hall isthank you very much. Mom says I have turned back on god...sigh...but she does not treat me as Dfd or Dad.
Although, if I HAD to be disfellowshipped...not that i want to go through that because of my mom....I think being Dfd for being an apostate is the coolest reason there is.