Bem,
Been there, saw that. Yes indeed. On the congregational level, I think most of us experienced this. I hold my opinion that it is encouraged as being a "strong christian" to behave in this way. Perhaps some are just too darned embarrassed to admit it, but I think it is true. That was my perception.
Our congregation was totally paranoid about each other. There were perhaps five families who attended meetings, and boy could we spread out! We carefully seated ourselves away from the "questionable" ones. Ones who in our opinion were not as "spiritual" as we considered ourselves. Shameful, but true.
And boy would we (and others) put on a show when the CO came around. Full parking lot, on those evenings I tell you.
So my point is, are we evil for doing such things? Surely such nonsense would be condemned by the authority of the watchtower...But no. Not only is it not condemned, it is ENCOURAGED. It is taught and promoted from the gb.
Of such was the point of my post. Thanks for your comments BEM.