SNOOPING... do you? (page 2)

Odrade

Nope, don't need to, don't want to, have better things to do with my time. My hubby snoops though. He's not very good at covering his tracks. LOL!

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bikerchic

E-man!!!!

That is too funny! You is baaaaaaaad!

LMAO!

Kate

Sassy

I never snooped on my first husband and was cheated on for years and was too dumb to realize it...

after we divorced and he had told the elders he never had sex with his 'admitted' girlfriend... I was at his house (our old one) once waiting for the boys to be ready to come for a visit.. the messy house drove me nuts to see it a war zone disaster so while i waited I started picking up the living room... low and behold on the floor was a note all folded up.. I opened it only to see if it looked like garbage or not and turned it out it was a hand created calendar of all his escapades with the women he cheated on me with.. including dates he was with her while he still lived with me.. first kiss.. first shower together.. first sex.. etc etc.. I put that baby in my pocket.....went home and photo copied it and sent it to the elders and his family who were accusing me of wrongfully leaving him.. (he by the way went to the district attorney and tried to have charges put on me for stealing something from his home.. the DA didn't press charges but did scold me.. the elders didn't do anything for fear of being sued)

that was my first snoop session...

my next was the day my 2nd husband was moving out.. I went through his bag as he was loading his car with stuff.. in his breifcase I found paper work he had my signature on, showing I was liable for him in this country for as long as he lived in the US.. including if we divorced.. as well as his green card renewal paperwork for filing this coming summer all in my name as his sponsor.. I didn't do anything with this knowledge but I was glad to know what he was up to...

now that man snooped on me while we were married.. broke into my email. eventually terrorized my friends from inside it just so they would know he had been reading our correspondence. many he accused of trying to break up our 'christian household'..

there is a more current situation.. but I'll add it after other comments

Maverick

When my wife was talking about leaving me and my daughter she claimed that there was no other person involved. I did not believe her and made copies of her voice mail messages from her boyfriend. Up until then I would never even have considered snooping. Once I knew she was lying I stopped, it was too painful to even hear those messages. She would open my mail and check my messages during our marrage and I hated it but I respected her and did not do the same to her.

When I had two full time girlfriends one of them spied on me and knew about the other one for 6 months before she tried to break us up. I dumped her for her efforts. The one I have now claims she does not check up on me but she just shows up at the night club I like to dance at. I know she is making sure I behave.

I never cheated on my wife or any woman I was in a committed relationship until this one now. But now that I have, the temptation is very great and I fight it all the time. I handled two girlfriends full time for almost two years and I find it hard to adjust to only one very busy lady who fits me in when she has some time. If she is smart, she should pay a little more attention....life leaves clues. Mav

Nosferatu

Only if I have reason to snoop.

When my ex left me, she cleaned out the bedroom and left three garbage bags in the living room. I was packing when she wasn't home, and I heard a beeping from one of the garbage bags. I opened it up and found it was an old broken watch I had. But while looking for the beeping, I came across some of the things she had thrown out. A few things were gifts that I had bought for her as well as some lingerie (that shit's expensive!!) I was really upset about this, but it didn't prepare me for what I came across next.

My ex always wrote a rough draft of anything (ie cards, letters, etc) and I found a note that was scribbled out. I put it up to the light and read it. It was basically a love letter to a guy that she worked with. I now had the answer to why she left, she no longer loved me.

Country Girl

You *bet* I do! Right in front of his face, too. Hehhehe. I grab his wallet and start going through it and questioning every little piece of paper. Not because I don't trust him, because it irritates the crap outta him and causes lots of laughter. Then he does it to my wallet. How ruuuuuude! <grin>

Country Girl

myauntfanny

It would depend on the whole context. I would find it distasteful. It doesn't seem very dignified. And people need their privacy. If I felt like I HAD to snoop on the guy I would already have lost respect for him and wouldn't want him anymore. However, if I suspected criminal activity or that I was in danger I wouldn't hesitate for a second.

unique1

I don't go looking for stuff, but if something is there, I have to look. Like I need somebodys phone # and it is in his outlook address book. If an email message is up I will read it but I don't go looking for it. I think I was a cat in a previous life. Curiousity just KILLS me. But then again, my husband knows that.

TresHappy

If I had to, yes, but I wouldn't want to do it....

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