Little Toe said:
Your analogy is a strange one. You seem to be concentrating soley on the extrovert-flamboyant.
I AM talking about the extrovert-flamboyant. The majority of homosexuals are fine, and homosexuality in general doesn't bother me. However, the high on meth and viagra dancing to Donna Summer in the street in a thong type is a bit much to me. Again, I've seen it happen with my own eyes, this is not simply a stereotype.
Supposing a homosexual guy dresses just like the rest of the guys, but just happens to be especially effeminate? How does your advice help here?
Is he effeminate because he's this way naturally or is just part of his "I'm Coming Out, I Want the World to Know" routine? I've met straight guys that act gayer than George Michael in a men's restroom, with lisps more audible than the air leaking out of a flat tire. But that's just how they are, where some gay guys are just being silly for the sake of being silly. Which to me can be a bit much. I think there comes a time when all of us have to behave in a rational manner. If it's queer disco night, maybe not. If it's at the DMV, then maybe, just maybe.
Now, say they want to be the bottom in the relationship, it would make sense that they act effeminate in order to attract the top. The problem is, they OVERDO IT. Yes. Drama, Bitchiness, Caddiness, all the worst traits in a women combined with an inflated sense of a newfound gay identity. QUEENS to the EXTREME. Much more than being simply "effamanite". Do I hate them? No. But the do annoy me, just like a redneck or Jimmy Falwell.