Before I go into what the hell is going on, I need to give you some background....
Over two years ago, I moved out on my roomate. He's always been jealous of me, and he was getting his family members to threaten me with eviction over a dumb issue. I moved out and never spoke to him again.
Now, I post on a dating forum and give advice. When I got engaged, I got cold feet. I really wasn't sure if I was marrying the right woman. I posted about this quite some time ago, and was seriously considering breaking off. Obviously, I changed my mind, and I don't regret my decision at all.
I just got off the phone with my wife. She was incredibly upset when she called. She ran into my ex-roomate at his workplace (Burger King). My wife told me that his fiance has been browsing the dating forum that I post on, and he proceeded to tell her all the negative things that I had posted about my (then) fiance.
I'm pissed off because none of my discussion was any of his (or his fiance's) business. It almost seems like this was a direct shot at [edit] up our relationship to get revenge (him and his family are always plotting revenge on everyone else, including family members).
My ex-roomate also wants to try and patch our friendship. Yeah right.
Now, does anyone have any idea of how I could deal with this shit? Should I post something on the dating message board I post on directed at these two assholes?