SHOW DOWN TODAY

by Corvin 47 Replies latest jw friends

  • hubert
    hubert

    Good luck with your daughters in court, Corvin. We'll be praying for you and them, too.

    Hubert

  • SWALKER
    SWALKER

    Just want to say that we all feel terrible for what you are going through. I pray that things work out in your favor...It should be obvious to the judge what is best for the children! Hang in there.

    Swalker

  • morty
    morty

    I wish you all the best today and I hope justice prevails for you...((((((((Corvin)))))))

  • Brownboy
    Brownboy

    Hello Corvin,

    Looking back at my first marriage, years later I always regret the things that happened, and the hate that existed between my ex-wife and I. An unselfish attitude, and a loving heart will save you lots of pain in the future. The ones that come away damaged are your children. Look into your heart, set the example of a caring and loving person, be the first to forgive, and always show love to your children. This despite the outcome of your relationship with your childrens mother. I wish you well............

    Brownboy

  • ApagaLaLuz
    ApagaLaLuz

    Man it still surprises me sometimes how crazy people can be, especially acting that way in front of her family. I KNOW how stressful and difficult family court can be, especially if one or both parties arent willing to cooperate. I'm glad you're trying to take the high road in this matter. Thanks so much for your updates. *muah*

  • Farkel
    Farkel

    Corvin,

    : She only denied that she was coercive with the girls, denied any fault or wrongdoing. She blamed me for everything and made a big scene on the telephone since she was talking to me in front of her family.

    This was after YOU told her you would not bring that stuff up? Unbelievable!

    Never compromise with her again. She will give you nothing and suck the blood out of your veins and still feel that she is right. I know this mentality. I was a dub, too.

    Stand your ground, buddy.

    Farkel

  • mpatrick
    mpatrick

    Corvin,

    I am so sorry to hear you are going through all of this. I replied to one of your post a while back where you spoke of being so happy to come home surprised to see your kids asleep at your house, just because they wanted to be home. Hang in there, your love for your children is evident! They are very fortunate to have a father like you! My thoughts are with you...

    Michelle

  • Corvin
    Corvin

    Hmmm, is there any way you can arrange to talk to your ex when she doesn't have an audience? That may be the only time she may approach reasonable. It would be nice to see court-mandated counselling for your ex. Especially if it is scheduled for meeting night. ;-)

    I only tried to reason one last time for Nancy. This crazy bitch is going to carry on her lies and denial right to the bitter end just to see what she can get for it.

    Never compromise with her again. She will give you nothing and suck the blood out of your veins and still feel that she is right.

    Yes, you are right. She is going to continue until she is slapped down. I cannot afford, even for Nancy?s preferences to give that woman any more respect or compromise. F*ck it, I?m taking her out.

    The hearing was set for this thusday, and the attorney was a little uneasy because he has had so little time to investigate everything. I asked him if he had any experience with JW custody cases. He said he had mostly dealt with JW children regarding the blood issue. He also mentioned that he understood the JW rules were the strictest around. I handed him a fat folder of JW custody cases, WTBTS rules and policies regarding child rearing, and letters from my children along with a 17 page log of all incidents and instances of Sara's violations of the judges orders. He asked me what it was and I told him it was required reading if he really wanted to represent my kids fairly. I explained that there are an aweful lot of layers to this and if he were to just rush through this like any other custody disagreement, he would be seeing us back here again in a few short months. I emphasized that based on mom and step-dad's record of redicavism, they will not stop what they are doing to the kids until someone dies or the judge orders them to. I stressed that this is serious business and not just a couple parents fighting over custody. I explained that I had been more than generous with visitation above and beyond what the judge ordered and it wasn't good enough.

    He said he would most likely ask the judge for more time. I think that would be wise on his part.

    More later,

    Corvin

  • czarofmischief
    czarofmischief

    Yes, you are right. She is going to continue until she is slapped down. I cannot afford, even for Nancy?s preferences to give that woman any more respect or compromise. F*ck it, I?m taking her out.

    Good luck, Corvin. I've been following you story. Tough choices, tough call. Good luck.

    CZAR

  • dh
    dh

    good luck from me too. i hope the judge makes the right decision.

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