CONGRATULATIONS Corvin!
I was holding off responding until the judge's decision and I must say I was blown away!!!!
You're children have been really empowered. Now let's see if your ex can muster up even a smidgeon of unconditional, unjudgemental love for them. (Or is she too far gone with the Borg?)
And you can still picket?!!! This is a dream of a ruling. I'd gladly put up with twice all the minor injustices I have put up with so long as the universe balanced things out with justice for those who really needed it.( i.e.Your kids )
Now you can focus on healing.
P.S. I read a bumper sticker that said: I still miss my ex, but my aim is improving .