crazy weekend....am i going to hell????

by red so deep 19 Replies latest jw friends

  • red so deep
    red so deep

    you could say that

  • Fe2O3Girl
    Fe2O3Girl

    Red So Deep: About losing your V card - I very much hope you know all about safe sex, and used protection. No need to become a WT poster child.

    Now you are getting used to not doing what the WT tells you, what are you doing about your education? Are you going to college?

    Well done for losing the mind control before you turn 18. If I had had more sense it would have saved me a lot of misery, and some bruises too.

  • flower
    flower

    Red, sounds like a fun weekend. Just be safe and smart and keep having fun.

  • red so deep
    red so deep

    um, i was pretty careful about everything but could've done better....she was on the pill but i didn't have a rubber. (go figure) geez, this thread is damn near turning into porno so i'll change the subject.

    i had posted here a while back about my struggle in the org. but yes, i am planning on going to a music production school and *gasp* not spending my time in the full time service! i've read crisis of conscience and other books and websites pertaining to evolution and the context that the bible is to be taken in, and my decision is pretty much made up. i've told my parents, including my elder father, and they're not ecstatic about it and i still do go to some meetings, but overall, they have been pretty accepting which i appreciate. i don't post here much either, but reading all the information and other peoples experiences here has really helped me as well. the hardest thing is gradually losing my friends in the org, which were pretty much all i had, but i've been trying to develop realationships with "worldly" folk here locally and that too has helped.

    so thanks again to all of you here!

  • candidlynuts
    candidlynuts

    dangit the teens are getting more action than i am!!

    congrats red.. just remember, the warnings about sexually transmitted diseases aren't fiction. be careful ! you really should use condoms even if your partner is on the pill unless your sure your both clean and going to be monogamous while your sexually active together. you just started using your little buddy, dont catch cockrot!

  • red so deep
    red so deep

    ^^definately some interestingly worded advice!! put a smile on my face though...we talked about that stuff first and will be more careful in the future...

  • flower
    flower

    red so deep..

    thats just nasty.

  • jgnat
    jgnat

    I feel like such a geek. I had to read the whole thread to find out what a V-card was. I thought it was an American police-state issued card or something. I never know what I will learn on JWD. Well, at least you are not treating the girl like a blow-up doll, and you are still talking to her. That is very nice.

  • red so deep
    red so deep

    haha, treat her like a blow up doll....i may have gone a bit crazy this weekend, but i am a human being..

  • Nosferatu
    Nosferatu
    but to be honest, i drank a little, smoked a little, and lost my V card.

    Sounds like a night in heaven to me! Trust me, I had fun when I left. Congratulations, you're on your way to becoming a normal person!

    she was on the pill but i didn't have a rubber. (go figure)

    I urge you to educate yourself on birth control. The WT takes this education away from its members, so when they enter into the world, their lack of education causes them to get into trouble. Please educate yourself on the subject. That's one of the first things I did when I left, and I'm glad I did. Go buy some rubbers. Seven bux for a box will save you from hundreds of dollars a month for child support.

    i am planning on going to a music production school and *gasp* not spending my time in the full time service!

    Sounds good to me! I'm in the middle of recording my own album. I wish you lots of luck in this future endeavor!

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