Sorry to hear this, Else. :( I was looking forward to a house-warming apostafest at your place!
You should go for a house that doesn't cost as much. Homes are a great investment. We lived in an apartment for 5 years and of course don't get back a dime that we paid in rent. We've been in our house for 3 years now and could get back all the principal we've paid plus some since it has appreciated. If we were smarter, we would have moved into a smaller house sooner instead of staying in the apartment for 5 years.