What a terrible thing to tell you . ." you're not going to see your father after you die". They sure love to instill guilt, want you to be full of it when you leave. Monsters!!!!!!
well folks im out
by koolkeithfl 27 Replies latest jw friends
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Big Tex
Just because a couple of cultish hypocrites say that God will murder you, doesn't make it so. I'm sorry that you had to go through that, but at least you're through it and on the other side. How's your wife taking it?
The best revenge is a life well led. Enjoy your freedom.
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Bryan
Welcome to the first day of your real life!
they told me i wasn't gonna see my father in the new system. they said he'll be looking for me and i won't be there. arrrrrrrrrrrrrr!
These people never cease to amaze me. If you were fading, I doubt they saw too much of you. What if you were in a bad place emotionaly and their comment about your father pushed you over the edge to attemp suicide. These people have no clue!
Bryan
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FlyingHighNow
they told me i wasn't gonna see my father in the new system. they said he'll be looking for me and i won't be there. arrrrrrrrrrrrrr!
Well, hey, that sounds like they dream that Jehovah has given them the special power of being able to judge and decide whose names go into the book of life. Must be some kind of new light. Maybe we should all head to your old KH and ask them to tell our futures, too?
Congatulations. I hope the shunning won't be from your family members. Good vibes coming your way from way up north here. Now: go party hardy. The universe is big and mysterious again!
I say to myself "Goodness, did I look like that?!"I know what you mean, Dansk. I read some of their silly posts on one of their boards, the dating ones are the worst, and I asked myself, "My god, did I sound like that?" I remember distinctly, thinking that we didn't sound goofy and corny like the super duper fundamentalists do with their "Praise Jesus"es and their "Praise the Lord"s.
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Brummie
Congrats, dont know how you are feeling for sure but the more distant you become from the ORG the more you realise that they did you a big favour.
Well done, perhaps all memebers of this board should send a thank you letter to the elders that dissed you lol
Brummie
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kls
Hi KoolKeith i am so glad you are really out now go out in the world and make worldly friends and have a happy life.
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frenchbabyface
Cool ... (if I can it that way)
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CC Ryder
Hey KoolKeith,
Glad to hear your out.I'm not glad that you had to go through a JC meeting. I've been in them myself. I chose not to go to my last one. I let them have all the fun by themselves. Good luck with your new future of freedom.
CC
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Tim Horton
Hi there,
Enjoy your freedom, it's well deserved. I too am sorry that you had to go through the interview. That's what it feels like. I feel like I'm heading in the direction of being df'd too. I can't fade anymore either. It feels fake to me. You don't have to be fake anymore. You're actually free to be yourself. Embrace it. It's wonderful. Freedom 2004. We congradulate you. Ian's words were great. I totally agree. Panther -
kwintestal
Good for you Kool guy!
JC are the pits, I've been through 3 at least ( can't remember for sure, maybe 4). They always use the same techniques though to try to drag you back. They use your believing family as leverage, saying how disappointed and sad your family is that you left. That's a big deal to a 17 year old kid with a big heart. My question was "What about me? Am I to do something I don't want to do, for my family?" That doesn't matter though.
It's great that you didn't fall into that trap as I did when I was younger and not as strong. And being DF'd or DA'd is much better then the fade, if you want complete seperation from them. I've not been to a meeting for a year and a half, and just before I read your post there was a knock on the door, encouraging me and my wife to attend the CO's visit tonight. Mrs. Kwin wasn't here, so I said "I'll pass it on." (So there! It's been passed on.) But what I'm getting at is, you won't have to worry about getting that knock on the door. Good for you!
Kwin