When a word is said with a sneer, it takes on more meaning than the Oxford dictionary. I believe the WTBTS is, by orthodox and sociological definition, a "cult". But I don't use that word so often any more. Because when I use the word "cult", the image that comes to mind is the Branch Davidians, Jonestown, and koolaid. All a JW has to say is, "Look at my neat appearance and natty suit. We do not serve koolaid at the Kingdom Hall, and we do not have a stash of AK 47's in our basement. OF COURSE we are not a cult." But, but. HIGH CONTROL group. Just let them try and weasel out of that definition.
Are governments and armies cultic/high control as well? Perhaps. I guess we have to ask ourselves to what degree. Armies by necessity are not democratic. To move large masses of men in to danger, reliably, leaders have to know that they will obey without question. Governments use propoganda to sway public opinion so that they can push forward their agenda. There is no question that there is emotional coersion that is going on.
I ask myself, what are the consequences for going against the grain? For a soldier in the middle of war, court-martial. In milder seasons, he gets conscientious objector status and does stupidwork. In a democratic country? There is a lot of tolerance for differing beliefs, and dissenters do not have to chose between freedom and family. The US does not have a Berlin Wall. People are free to come and go and speak what they please within limits.
I believe the WTBTS has erected a mental Berlin Wall. Followers are convinced that their side of the wall is the closest thing to genuine paradise. How many brave a peek over the wall? How many stay within once they get a good look at freedom? How many drag on for sake of family and friends? JWD veterans are brave folk for counting the cost and making the sacrifice. Bravo.