I love family and old friends, despite the fact that they are JW's. I hate the behavior that the organization enforces on them. I hate the misleading that the WTS does. I hate the WTS.
Like Angharad said, it takes a lot of energy to hate something. I hope someday that I will find a peaceful place in which to let go of the hate. Right now, in this moment, space, and time, when I see what they have done to my family, I do still hate them.
I'm working on that. But to me it's about hating child abuse, high control groups, and liars. It's about so much more than religion.
I feel sorry for the JWs individually. They've been misled; and many are so sincere. Most in my family are very sincere. It's hard to hate sincerity.
But I really do 'actively dislike' (great term, Ang!) being preached at.
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essie