I've pretty much "faded" completely at this point, making it to the odd meeting here or there once or twice at most every 6 months or so (I don't bat an eye at the prospect of missing entire circuit overseer visits, etc.). For a while I was at the one or two meeting a month inactive level (I have not been out in field service for at least three years, nor bookstudy for two years. In fact, "my" bookstudy location of about 2 years just changed with me having never set foot in the place ever), but despite that relatively low level of activity, I was still given parts on the Theocratic Ministry School untill earlier this year when I decided to cut back even more to my current level.
So far the congregational elders have been bothering me far less than my parents. When I do show up, the elders generally say hi, that they're glad to see me, and hope that I'll be there again. My parents have realized that I lack interest in "the truth", but they don't push me about it really. On Sunday's my dad will ask me if I'm going to meeting, I'll say no, and he'll leave in peace after that .
At this point I wouldn't want to upset my family by missing the Memorial, so I'll certainly be attending it this year. It's just an hour out of my life, so it's no big deal. Plus it's always a little exciting to look around to see if anyones going to eat the memorial emblems .