Fleur,
But what of the suffering of those left behind? The mothers who watched their children torn away and drown in a split second? how could a loving god put them through that?
It's too horrible to comprehend...the whole thing.
I agree...it is more horrible than anything I could comprehend in my life. But like I said, I don't have the answers. Look back at your life...isn't there someone in your life that has experienced what you've experienced and they helped you through it. Even though you wouldn't wish your awful experiences on anyone, that one person who made the huge difference in your life, could never have done it without their own awful experiences, right? Maybe it's a cycle of giving and loving. Maybe it's the cycle of life. I don't know. I just know that there are people here that have experienced some crappy things in life. But they somehow made it through with help from others that experienced the same things. Isn't it possible that the people left behind, are experiencing it on purpose? A purpose of helping someone else through it when they go through a loss in their own life?