In AA one of the favorite sayings is "Fear and Faith cannot be present at the same time". Well, as I got more and more time clean under my belt I used to refute these untruths, especially as I experienced them.
I found that Fear and Faith can live together. Faith is what gets us through Fear.
Faith does not require one's believing in god, or Jesus, or a higher power. Faith is the belief that one can transcend the difficulties one is fearful of.
My take on the Serenity Prayer
100 Can I do anything about it
105 If Yes, then go to 200
110 If No, then go to 400
200 Do I want to do anything about it
205 If Yes, then go to 300
210 If No, then go to 400
300 Do something about it
400 Forget about it
Understanding what we have power or control over (very little) and what we don't is power unto itself and reduces fear.
Hugs
Brenda