ok ok break it up boys, lol.
lets not put words in anyone's mouths.
heres the thing, one person will experience something and never see what others experience, and so we assume.
for decades, so many jws never have a single bit of controversy in their lives and cant imagine anyone else having issues that are not of their own making. they have flawed reasoning, obvious imperfection.
for example my mother is convinced that when people that are jws get into situations that result in hardship, shes sure they are not trusting in jehovah and doing what they're supposed to do, whatever that is.
well one day i asked her, gee mom, you mean all these years I wasnt trusting in God, my service was fake, my meeting attendance was fake, and that's why I have an unloving marriage and no friends?
I guess you lack faith too since things aren't the way you want, huh mom? she gets where im going
and usually changes the subject. stupid logic she has. no ones lives are perfect.
Ive lived long enough to see jws in my area never have anything other than some health problems cramp thier style, but then again, Im not a fly on the wall, who knows what demons they hide inside.
its all a facade. who are the real people behind the label?