I started a thread once entitled "non-practicing JW" - I guess in reality I'm just as easily a "non-practicing apostate"
I've always believed that as free moral agents, we have not only the ability but the right to choose for ourselves what we want to do with our lives - and if someone chose NOT to be a JW, then we should respect that choice. That's the choice I've made - I no longer wish to practice the religion of the WBTS. My choice - my free will. Does that make me an apostate? Some practicing JWs may think so, but I don't. I'm not interested in convincing any of them to change their minds any more than I was really interested in going door-to-door trying to convince the world that they should jump onboard.
Ultimately, it's their label - and since I don't feel the need to live up to their standards anymore, they can put it on me if they want - it really doesn't matter to me.