**JW's are big into being different, they use the differences to show that they are 'separate from the world'
Welcome to the board!
"Into being different" is a good way to put it! The WTS turns itself inside out and rightside to in order to "prove" that they "have the truth" (which they most certainly do not)
They teach the JWs to "examine" ALL the common beliefs shared by Christians worldwide under their microscope. To "examine" these teachings, the WTS has taken great pains to find ANY scripture that can POSSIBLY mean something else---and FLY with it as "truth".
Christmas and Easter---They don't honor or celebrate Jesus birth, viewing it as distasteful and displeasing to God. JWs don't even bat an eyelash on the day of Jesus' resurrection, despite this being the event that ultimately proved that he died as a sacrifice for all mankind and demonstrated his victory over death. (Verrrrrry minor point in WTS beliefs)
Ever heard of communion? The JWs don't "use" that term either, they call it the Memorial of Christ's Death. Even though Jesus said to "do this is in remembrance of me", ONLY a select few actually take an active part in doing this.....the rest of about six million JWs simply sit there and pass the bread and wine to one another knowing they are not worthy of Jesus' sacrifice.
The "cross vs a stake" is just one more area where the WTS knocks itself out to put another kink in common Christian beliefs. Because the cross being THE internationally recognized symbol of Christianity, once again the WTS sees the need to tear the meaning of it down to fit THEIR complicated set of beliefs, and attack the cross as a "murder weapon", JWs won't wear them or have them in their homes. (JWs call it the TORTURE STAKE".............. *much* nicer, don't you feel?)
I know this is rather lengthy, and I'm sorry, but this, too, is a sore point with me. What every other Christian takes seriously and holds dear to them.....the WTS tears it down as disgusting and Pagan.
One more thought on this; is that the longer I'm out and away from 30 years of these beliefs, the more I am convinced that there IS a good reason why the WTS stays so far away from the real Christ. (This is only the beginning of their twisted teachings and why I think what I do).
The WTS has come between the JWs and God, and the TRUE mediator in Jesus, has been wiped out as much as they could get away with doing so. They don't baptize the way that Jesus said to, they don't celebrate his birth or resurrection (ONLY HIS DEATH!), they don't believe in Jesus teachings about caring for others (feeding, clothing, etc) in fact the WTS doesn't "believe" in giving to any charities but sending donations ONLY to the WTS.
At the time of Jesus ministry, the Pharisees had saddled the believers with all sorts of rules and regs, making it impossible to "please God" at the time. Jesus presented his teachings as a "lighter yoke" to take up which would BE pleasing to God.
Anyone "studying" the bible with JWs will see that ALL the restrictions, rules to follow, and meetings, WT studies, bookstudies, personal study,service (door 2 door), and various assemblies that they are EXPECTED to attend-----will prove that the yoke is anything BUT light! It's exhausting!
I firmly believe that the WTS has climbed up into Jesus' seat and taken on his position. He only gets occasional lip service just to toss him in there once in a while, but to say they are followers of Jesus would be ludicrous. By their very actions they have shown how much they are in opposition to him, and I am SURE he is NOT pleased!
I hope this gives you a little insight into the WTS beliefs.
Annie