Hi Hubert,
When I was baptized in '72, the org was (or seemed to be) very different. We had a LOT of planned get-togethers, friends dropping by for coffee, kids having sleepovers, we played cards, went bowling, and enjoyed one another.........we were like a real family! There was a closeness and a strong feeling of love and caring.
As the years went by, this gradually fell by the wayside, and it got down to maybe to two get-togethers a year. It began to get complicated. It seemed to me that there were so many changes and the "dont's" that were being implemented began to feel stifling.
The WT in '81 that changed our lives in a million ways (how the WTS now expected JWs to treat DFed ones) was a bomb dropped on MY family, and it divided us in ways that have hurt us and demolished what was left of us AS a family.
THEN, the baptism questions (1985) took on an entirely different meaning than what I believed and was dedicated to. BIG change, as far as I was concerned.
The gatherings were scaled down to "small" get-togethers (since when would anyone have to COUNT how many people they wanted to invite to their own home?) But the WTS had its rules and JWs must obey or take a chance of being ratted on. (THIS is a religion???)
The "love" of the greater number HAS indeed, grown cold. The WTS has only itself to blame with telling adults HOW to live, WHERE they can go, and that they must be continually told that they aren't doing enough and not pleasing God if they don't knock themselves out in FS.
The only information about the WTS is what I see on here......and the audacity of the Org in telling the JWs that they cannot go out for lunch at the assemblies---just blew my mind. Of course, they didn't SAY they couldn't---it was a "suggestion" (yeah, right) but the whole idea was WAY beyond the bounds of anything "religious".
Don't you wonder WHAT they'll come up with next.....as food from God? I do.
Annie.........who wanted to tell Hubert that I was baptized at the Narragansett Racetrack in RI!