Like some others have said, just ask some Witnesses. Not only do they disfellowship anyone that breaks their little man-made rules. But they are damn proud of it! They'll tell you that it is one of the distinctive facets of their little cult. Its how they keep the congregation clean. More than likely, they'll have some little scripture snipppet ready to fire off, 'Mathew chapter this, in harmony with Romans verse that.'
Fast forward: If you two stay together and have kids, and they don't buy into the lunacy, then when they grow up, and are no longer dependant, The Cult will try to get you to cut all non-emergency ties with your own kids. Ain't that a kick in the a$$?
Buster, you have described the Jehovah's Witnesses so accurately.
Tell your BF to get baptized and then decide that the doctrines of the Governing Body of Jehovah's Witnesses, who falsley claim to be the one channel God is using to communicate with mankind, are 100% against Christ and he wants out to be free to worship in the manner that Jesus taught. Just hope that he didn't convert you or any children you may have into the organisation and you decide to stay in the cult. Your life will be total hell. Abusive treatment from all the congregation elders and members because your husband rejected Jehovah and Jesus and since they can't turn on him because they will be disfellowshipped if seen talking to him because he is an apostate and he is hated worse than anyone on earth they will turn on you and your children. If you are thoroughly brainwashed you will feel guilt, shame and unworthy of their love because you are 'weak' due to your relationship with him. I left the Jehovah's Witnesses after almost 15 years of dedicated service in various positions within the organisation because I finally saw the extreme lack of Christian love, unscriptural doctrines and blasphemous practices such as the yearly ritual they label 'the memorial'. My wife and I divorced before I officially disassociated myself due mainly to the social shunning she recieved because I was not attending meetings. When I disassociated myself the 'loving organisation' influenced her so much that she is currently being prosecuted for contempt of court regarding my rights to visitation and legal rights afforded to me by the state I live in to take my child to my place of worship where unconditional Christian love is displayed to all no matter social status, wealth, education or level of individual spiritual maturity. Her 'loving elders' agreed for me to meet him at the KH but since our divorce was judged unscriptural and I am an outspoken cult apologetic helping others to break free from the iron grip the Jehovah's Witnesses have on innocent victims they decided that it would not look good for me to be on their property. They were really afraid that I might be able to influence their 'flock' to stop putting their faith and allegiance in the Governing Body of Jehovah's Witnesses and turn instead to putting faith in Jesus as the bible teaches. If your BF persists in associating with them and you stay loyal to him you are about to take the longest ride of your life down a road full of grief, misery, pain, heartbreak and suffering. He is also risking his chance for everlasting life if he supports their blasphemy. The Governing Body of Jehovah's Witnesses are guilty of deliberate atrocious crimes against humanity by their doctrines regarding medical treatment and their fear and hatred of all former JW's who may be inclined to expose them for what they are.
