Thank you all. I really appreciate all of your thoughts, prayers, and hugs! No, no JW funeral in any way, shape or form. I talked to one elder in my parents' old congregation who I respect enough to tell and I let him know that the service will be private. We are inviting two families to come and will just have a gravesite memorial. I want everyone, kids included, to get up and tell their favorite story about Mom. And I am going to pour some ouzo into the grave before we put the box of ashes in. (She was VERY Greek.)
Hugs to all of you,
Nina