Good answer, defd. You make an assumption, though. You figure that aldemall left because her circumstances got bad. A lot of Jehovah's Witnesses make that mistake.
Jesus taught us that if our foundation is sure, the house will stand and nothing will be able to tear it down. The deep betrayal I hear from many former witnesses is that they found that the foundation of the Watchtower Society is rotten. Once we are on shaky ground, none of our mental structures can help. We can buttress them with wishful thinking, blame the storm and the waves, but the truth is, our assurance was put in to tissue paper.
My faith in God is unassailable. I have no faith in the Watchtower Society.