It's shocking and unnatural that you must hear about things this way. If you need to be obnoxious assertive in order to see your mom, then so be it. Scully had a good idea with the flowers.
Sending you and your mom good thoughts and energy ...
tal
My mom was just rushed to the Hospital....
by rwagoner 24 Replies latest jw friends
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talesin
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Mary
Good god, and these people call themselves "christian"??! I'm so sorry to here this has happened.....any chance you can go visit her?
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rwagoner
My heartfelt thanks again to everyone for your thoughts and prayers....it means a great deal to me that at least one of my "families" cares so much.
I was able to contact a friend at the hospital and learned that my mom seems to be out of danger at this point. This is sort of a reoccuring problem as I mentioned. She fills up with excess fluid and basically begins to drown...she was in respiratory arrest when the ambulance arrived but they got her to the emergency room and performed an emergency dialysis to remove the fluid. She was resting comfortably this morning when I spoke to my friend.
I decided not to visit as she has enough going on atthe moment without the added stress of dealing with her obnoxious aposto-son. I did send flowers however and a brief note....offering help...reminding them that DA'd relatives CAN be contacted during "Family Emergencies" and reminding them that their only son loves them and remains, as always eager to hear from them.
I'm putting together a letter...sort of a follow up if you will for once she is sent home. I'm using the example I saw here recently about buying a new car. They would never buy a new car based solely on the word of the saleman...they would think that was idiotic. They research the car online...read consumer reports magazine...look for the bad infomation as well as the good so they can make an informed decision. That is all that I have ever asked them to do with the dubs. If after at least listening to both side, they still want to remain in...so be it...of course we all know that they won't agree to it. LOL But it is worth a try right.....
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adelmaal
I am so sorry. It makes me sick to think your mom could be dying and that religion stands in your way of being with her...
Are you going to try to get in touch?
I hope all goes ok and your mom is back home safe. I also hope your parents see through the hatefulness of that religion and are able to re-establish a relationship with their son while there is opportunity for it.
Take care my fellow Right Winger!
P.S. Personally, they df'd you not vice versa. I would personally go down there with flowers (if it's local) and tell her you love her and hope she gets well). Then at least they can see that even though they shun you it is not the reverse. You afterall are an adult not burdened with ridiculous religious rules. JMHO.
I would send her flowers or show up anyway. Show them what love really means. Maybe next time, they'll tell you.
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Es
I hope all is ok.
es