To My Dear Mumsy Hadenuf!

by whyamihere 27 Replies latest jw friends

  • whyamihere
    whyamihere

    Hadenuf's Story!!!!! http://www.jehovahs-witness.com/7/57328/1.ashx

    Ok I know this Post was a long time ago...before I made my exit from the CULT!

    Hadenuf aka Cathy is my Mother in-law! I am the the woman who married her son! I here and Now want to say I am so sorry for everything I did while I was in! I look back and I see such sadness in how I must have treated her while I was still believing the Stupid JW's. I want to publicly apologize for my actions. Those actions were not speaking to her much not going to visit as often with my kids thinking bad of her and her husband because they left Jehovah! Yes, I admit I did things that I am shocked at because that is not me. I am not a horrible person. I was then but not now. After doing alot of Soul searching and really doing some reading. In my heart the JW's were not for me. I do not want to Shun those who love me unconditionally. I do not want to treat people bad because they think another way. That is not who I am. I am so angry with myself and I want to let everyone know how much Cathy means to me.

    I think I am loosing my Mom. I am losing my Brothers and my Sister(don't care for my sister anyway). However if I do loose my Mom there is not one Moment I will be with out a Mom. Cathy is my Mom! She is always there for me when I need her. I can't explain all the wonderful things she does for me. She helps me take care of my kids when I do to the Doctor or run errands or when I am having a tough time! I could not ask for a better Mom. She is the most loving person I know. My husband left this week to OK for a dream and knowing I would have a hard time by myself she is there! I love her so much. I just feel really sad right now thinking how I must have treated her. I want her to know that I promise that nothing will keep me from her nor my husband and my kids. She is my family and I am proud and honored to have her in my life.

    Thank you for Everything Mumsy!

    Brooke

  • seven006
    seven006

    It's an incredible awakening when we reach a point in our lives, smack ourselves in the head, and say, "I get it, I finally get it!"

    Keep it up Brooke, getting it only gets better and clearer the farther you get away from the corporation.

    Excellent post.

    Dave

  • adelmaal
    adelmaal

    That is so sweet I am sorry you are losing your biological family but glad you have an unconditionally loving (due to no longer being in that religion) family to be with you! Did your son husband eventually leave as well?

    It's too bad you didn't leave when the whole wedding boycott happened. You probably could have sued for damages as a result of having to pay for a wedding nobody attended based on slanderous information.

    I'm glad it all seems to be working out. Cathy must be thrilled you and your family are happy and free!

  • whyamihere
    whyamihere

    Hadenuf's son..... my husband ........left as well!

    We left together. We have 2 children ages 3 (Lily) 1 (Jack) and we will not put them though any teachings of the JW's!

    Thank you Dave I just wanted to let everyone know the rest of Hadenuf's Story!

    Brooke

  • kls
    kls

    AWWW i know she knows how much you love her and you are so sweet for letting her know. ,,,,,,tissue if you please

  • bavman
    bavman

    You are an awesome daughter-in-law for posting this! I think your' whole family including your' in-laws are just awesome too! I think I will go tear up some where now too....

    Bav

  • whyamihere
    whyamihere

    KLS,

    I just love her and I wanted her to know along with everyone who hoped her family got out as well. And we did! I wanted to finish off that part of the story for everyone since its in the "Best Of" List!

    I love you Mumsy!

    Brooke

  • whyamihere
    whyamihere

    Here everyone!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    Brooke

  • HappyDad
    HappyDad

    Brooke................

    That is beautiful !!

    And I'm sure Hadenuf is happy having you as a DIL too!

    Congrats...........

    HappyDad

  • lonelysheep
    lonelysheep

    Pass one over here, please. I can tell she loves you just as much, Brooke!

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