"Brother..........we really blew it when we let your situation happen. I personally accept the blame for letting this get out of hand and am sending out letters to all your relatives. Brother X and Q are relieved of Elder duties and I will step down after the letters go out.
You didnt deserve what we let happen. Please forgive us."
If I ever heard this from the 3 BOE's I have a beef with I might consider going back. But, as hell will freeze first I guess I will just have to be a Apostate.
~Hill