For instance, he doesn't see PG-13 movies and once -- no, I'm not kidding about this -- suggested to me only to wear white shirts on the platform.
hahaha! I raise you that with a "I haven't seen a PG movie since 1977, and I walked out on that one. Brothers should only wear white shirts on the platform, and unless it's a student talk, brothers should also wear suits, not slacks and sport coat. Student speakers should also try to wear suits. Sister's skirts are only as long as the highest part of the slit. Words like 'gosh' and 'dang' are just fake swear words and Jehovah knows what they mean so to him it's like saying the real thing. What we watch on TV could be like rolling around in the mud with the pigs. You are bringing the demons right into your home..." --my dad.
Honestly, there are so many rules, and if you abide by them all... urg.
Brad, sounds like it will be easy to avoid ambush. It'll probably be whatever you make it. You can go non-committal if some nosy elder takes it upon himself to quiz you about your beliefs, or you could talk about things and have it potentially turn into the inquisition. You know the drill as well as anyone. Just keep in mind that it's your sister's party, and even though she's going away to Gilead, she's also leaving home and all her friends. She's probably nervous and scared, in addition to being excited, so if you end up in a thing with the nosy elders, it could really make everything harder on her.
She at least seems like she's trying not to be hard-line about you not being a "believer" anymore.
Have fun at the party, babysitter! LOL!