Hadenuf said: I was considered "weak" as soon as my depression got to be too much for me and I only attended meetings sporadically and totally ditched service. So that caused our "loving and compassionate" elder's to start harrassing me and my husband about DOING MORE
Ah yes, didn't you realize that the reason you were depressed was because you were missing meetings and field service and not keeping up with the Borganization?? It's amazing how elders can diagnose the cause, symptoms and cure for depression with two words: do more. Think of all the wasted years that doctors go to university for to learn how to treat depression!
They even resorted to stalking me to see if indeed I was actually "sick" or just faking it to get out of my "Christian" duties to the org.
Can't remember if I mentioned this before, but if you ever catch these bozos stalking you, you can call the police and have them charged. Legally, only law enforcement agents and private detectives are allowed to follow someone. And as much as the elders like to think they're Sherlock Holmes, I think a judge would view it differently.