sorry, but I don't have time for ignorant people like that. Tell her to grow up already!
What would you guys do??
by under74 21 Replies latest jw friends
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under74
Valis-
I did tell her that last night. Like I said, I gotta live with her the next 2 months so I'm just trying to make it as painless as possible for myself. -
Simon
Just goes to prove the old saying ... "some women are NUTS ! Don't try to understand them or explain 'why' ... just make sure they don't have a knife."
Actually, I just made that saying up.
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Valis
right and doing that can be hard to do. Just go do some stuff for yourself when you can and stay out of the house often. I know that doesn't sound quite right, but might be the best thing to do for your own sanity. Sometimes you make the mistake of considering a person an equal on all levels and they don't understand when they get an off reaction to a "stupid" question. Not everyone can know eveything, but one would prefer to assume they aren't hanging out w/total stupid heads...
Sincerely,
District Overbeer
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under74
Valis- Yeah, it won't be hard to do since I'm in my final months of school right now and me and her are on completely different schedules. And thanks for that.
Simon- lol, you might be right....although I'm a woman and still find that kind of thing unacceptable. But your saying reminds me of something my grandma always said,"the difference between a crazy slut.....uh, nevermind. -
The Leological One
I haven't read all the responses yet but am quickly just adding my own in case it may be helfpul along with the others.
To me, it just sounds like she might be a bit immature (regardless of age) and as if she may never have gone through something where she could grow in a similar situation previously, i.e. being somewhat unaware of how she acted being seen by most people as being at least somewhat rude.
I've been in some situations where I've just tried to wait for a somewhat calm moment to try and come across as just wanting to talk calmly about the situation since it was a big deal. In this one, if she were open to talking at all, I'd probably just tell her how I felt but in a way that doesn't sound like you're talking down on her, as in maybe just trying to get her to see herself in the other person's shoes she was talking about and how she'd feel if she found out someone was harping behind her back in a similar fashion. Maybe that would make her think about it and get her to try and think a little before going off like that again. If so, then she truly is a cool person but maybe just not very socially skilled. Otherwise she may just be a somewhat lame person you might have to only talk to about important matters such as paying rent and bills, as well as moving procedures when the time comes.
Hopefully things will work out really well~!
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GetBusyLiving
I think you should marry this girl.
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under74
GBL- I'm not gay.
TLO- I tried some of that last night and I think it's as peaceful as it's going to be right now...hopefully it'll hold for the next 2 months. Thanks. -
GetBusyLiving
Woah - sorry under, thought you were a dude.
GBL
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under74
no apology needed....I'm the one that doesn't put the info on my profile