Do you realize how much that same question is applied day in and day out to people living in abusive households or with addictive spouses? How many will utter the same thing while in a destructive relationship? And then use the rationale of 'he isn't like that all the time'..'we've had so many good times that I remember'..that sort of stuff - yanking on that one small thing that the victim sees as good and holding fast to that one memory in order to justify staying and taking another kick to the kidneys.
One must be able to look at what is bad and then what is good. Morality is not something that is found only in the WTS and neither is much of anything else they teach - most of what is reasonable and good can be found most anyplace else one looks. It is much easier to run up a list of what is bad or destructive and then ask the question 'why stay'? If a religion puts rules in place that would halt your ability to get necessary medical treatment for yourself, your family, your child and your family could die as a result of that religion - is that a good thing? Is it a good thing for a religion to tell you to stop having any relationship with your child, your parent, your grandparent by shunning? Is it a good thing for a religion to tell you how much education your child will have before they punish you for allowing that education? That's a good thing?
It is not a question of what is good - what might be good in the WTS is also good in any number of religions. It must be a question of what is destructive instead. Only then can you really decide whether to stay or go. If one stays in for their family and as a result they actively recruit, teach and study WTS policy, recognizing the harm it is doing to innocent lives, then only they can address the true motive for their adherence to the master. sammieswife.