Bronzefist did you get to the part about the Man behind the Curtain and make any proper application in your talk?
-Eduardo
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Bronzefist did you get to the part about the Man behind the Curtain and make any proper application in your talk?
-Eduardo
lilbit: I was an elders daughter and I got counsiled all the time...for a lot of the same reasons. my nail polish was too colorful, wearing flip flops, wearing too much black, having too short hair, having blong streaks in my hair, wearing a slit in my skirt (seems those are really looked down on in my parents cong.), having nice clothes, wearing a tight necklace (or choker), having a chain on my pants, wearing baggy clothes, wearing tight clothes, wanting a 2-door car. etc. etc. etc.
Now, it seemed that because my dad was an elder, a well-liked elder, other older men were comfortable with just telling me their opinion about how a dressed/looked/acted. I was too opinionated for a female to tell them (in a nice way) to leave me alone. I was just ALWAYS getting counsiled...by other elders, MS's and my father. Luckily my father felt there was no hope for me :)
JWbot wow Im amazed the elders kids in my hall skated for everything they were the "Untouchables"
Luckily my father felt there was no hope for me :)
Same here. But I did still have to suffer through many years of being counseled, the worst for me personally was being told that I was to opinionated and that such behavior was unlady -like.
DL76
My wife was counseled for having become pregnant (probably something in the semen...) even though it was the result of marital sex (!)
I was counseled for having an "untidy" woodpile (!)
My wife was shunned by a number of "sisters" and two Elders for "covering" during prayers at the KH (and she was informed that the 1964 WT articles re: said "covering" were "Old Light" (!)
I knew of 2 disfellowshipped persons that were counseled by the elders to NOT sit together or else they would not be elligible for reinstatement!
"Untidy woodpile" is that code for masterbation?
What is "covering"???
MY LIFE!
wearing a tee shirt at a building project
EvilForce:
An "untidy" woodpile means a pile of wood which is not piled in a manner consistent with the GB/WTS standard for the piling of wood (!) [In the past, we used firewood to heat our home.]
"Covering" refers to the wearing of a piece of cloth on the head during a prayer or when prophesying (1 Cor. 11:4-6). [Apparently, the unsubmissive wives in the Cong disliked being confronted with an example of a wife who was submissive; God alone knows what the Elders may have found disturbing about the whole business - perhaps it was because it was found in the Bible (?)]