Religion divides ... Spirituality unites... that is my bottom line.
As soon as someone declares themself to be a certain religion, it seems like some judgments are made about the kind of person they are ... or aren't. I shy away from religious discussions. Usually, I just say, "I'm not religious, I'm spiritual." I nourish my spirituality from the inside out. I value and appreciate it most profoundly when I value and appreciate and honor my Self.
I know for sure that I do not subscribe to an ill-tempered, vindictive rogue gawd, who holds out carrots and empty promises for obedience, or threatens people with hell or death for disobedience.
I believe that since we have free will to choose for ourselves, there is no right and wrong, good or bad. Naturally, some choices may be healthier than others. Ultimately, if I take care of me, I am doing what is healthy for me. That includes healthy friends, who are not co-dependant or dependant on me, by leaning on me so that I hold them up or carry them. My friends must choose to stand on their own two feet, as well as I do. No addictive personalities, who are addicted to drink, drugs, gambling, or sex. Stuff like that just unevens or destabilizes the load of responsibility on my relationship with them.
I believe and accept astrology, and since I am a Libra, with a Libra rising sign as well, balance is very much a part of who I am. I feel my healthiest when I am "on centre", and not being pulled this way or that way. I also believe in peacefulness. That too, is very much of who I am.
Buddhism is really a way of life, so much more than a "religion". There are aspects of Buddhism that I relate to, such as knowing when to let go, no clinging or grasping. I guess I apply that to relationships and to jobs. If the job or relationship is unhealthy for me, I let it go. I accept the impermanence of this life. I know if I am in an unhealthy relationship or job, there is always another relationship or job out there that is healthier. And I find it. I like the Love relationship and the job I have now. In both, I feel like I get to be myself, without judgment. I am accepted and appreciated. I also accept and appreciate. And I get to express my creativity.
I fully trust the Universe to provide the life I desire. I just know that what goes around comes around. If I treat people in a way that I like to be treated myself, I just know that my life operates smoothly, peacefully, with style and grace. Sounds like something I read once ... somewhere.
Yes, I believe in reincarnation. Next time around, I want to be a successful and creative ballerina!
I believe that we are made from Love and our mission here is to Love and accept ourselves just as we are. If we love our Self, we allow others to love us, and also make room to love others. I love and accept my human-ness. I know I am Spirit having a human experience. My spirituality is alive and well. My experiences teach me things about my Self and this life.
There is a lot more ... I could write a book.
Ooops ... I already have!
Love,
ESTEE