Aren't you sick of being filled with so much hate ? I think HATE is one of the greatest sins. Satan hates Jehovah, and His people. Those who hate others become just like him, even though they might claim to be Christians. Jesus did not hate sinners, He hated sin itself, not people. Ex - JW's and active JW's who hate each other are not following the steps of the Son of God.
I am an active witness, and find it really sad to read between the lines of ex - JW's all the bitterness for the things they went through, while being members. I can only feel sorry they were not properly taken care of, I am sure Jehovah must feel the same way. However, this favorable situation in front of God's eyes turns back easily once they acummulate hate in their heart, and try to damage those who hurted them.
I am also sure Jehovah´s heart is toward those in the organization who have learned the difference between the sin and the sinner, and who honestly feel sad when a brother leaves, and hope he comes back some day, no matter how gross his sin might have been, or how badly his case might have been handled. The same way I am sure Jehovah does not aprove anyone of His followers hating an ex - brother, even if this ex - brother now hates him.
God IS love, and love is forgiveness. Anyone who hasn't yet learned that, hasn't learned anything at all. For all those we must pray, that they might someday become free of the evil infection HATE is, so that their soul may rejoice to the sound of the Good News, and forgiveness might come to their hearts, just as it came to Jesus's heart while He was being sacrificed by His enemies. There is no greater truth than this.
Sincerely,
Explorer