im sad because...

by tsunami_rid3r 29 Replies latest jw friends

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  tsunami_rid3r

  dammit
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  EvilForce

  She is probably taking you for granted and might only see the pain she's causing when you've left....cause you obviously are trying to be around her in some capacity so it doesn't hurt quite so much.
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  Sith

  Evil knows what he's talking about. The only way to attract her is to show her that you don't need her. That's the paradox of love. Hope + doubt = passion. Show some backbone, show her you like her but don't need her and she'll start wondering what the hell is going on.
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  EvilForce

  A little neglect wouldn't hurt either.... like push her down a half a flight of stairs....not a whole flight just a half :P
  
  Women like men who are emotionally distant. Makes you seem mysterious.
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  tsunami_rid3r

  you mean go days without seeing her, not even to say hi? ill feel bad because she sang happy birthday to me today, with her bf right there. she always says hi to me even though her bf is right there.
  
  
  so let me get this straight, tomorrow just go through different hallways to avoid her? and dont comment on her blog? and when shes on AOL instant messenger dont IM her? basically ignore her?
  
  
  i mean will she even care? she has a bf.. i dont think she'll even notice it.
  
  i mean i did tell her lets be friends technically. i said this, "the reason i said he isnt for you is because i like but if you really like him then i got your back on this as a friend." which i really do because i want her to be happy but by me wanting her its kind of selfish and im trying to fight it i think.
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  EvilForce

  Seem oblivious to her yes...like you couldn't care less.
  
  If you don't respond to her IM's and she asks why just say you were chatting with someone else and was really into the conversation to be interuptted. Of course this other person would be female. :)
  
  This will be extremely hard to do...but you must do it or she will just take you for granted like a door mat.
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  tsunami_rid3r

  but she sang happy birthday to me today..that was really sweet. i can see it now, if i avoid her at school. we wont be talking anymore. i dont want that. i like her company, shes fun to be around with. dammit i hate these conflicting feelings. ill follow your advice for a week or atleast until the week star wars comes out.
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  EvilForce

  Well you will be friends only and she won't see you as datable material...but if that's what you want from the relationship...so be it. Good luck.
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  silentWatcher

  dude,
  
  seriously, you need to get laid. After hooking up with a few different girls, will you truly appreciate there are MANY, MANY fish in the sea. While each person is special, NONE are worth obsesiving over, and certainly NO ONE is worth blowing your brains out over.
  
  
  "There is a time and palce for everything... it's called college." :-) good luck in school.
  
  -silent
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  tsunami_rid3r

  so just keep doing what i do everyday? walk down the hall and just say hi to her while she walks with her boyfriend?