by kittyeatzjdubs 39 Replies latest jw friends
he's also been bringing up the subject of WHEN we get married a lot here lately.
this is hilarious because i've been doing the same exact thing with my girlfriend just so that she'll be surprised when i give her something else for our anniversary. (video games...shh!...)
doogie...that's just mean...bet u don't get laid that night. haha!
i shall keep dreaming....
luv, kitty
doogie...that's just mean...bet u don't get laid that night. haha
what!?! how did you know??
and its not funny. it's terribly sad. absolutely terrible (i'm about to start pulling out old watchtowers talking about not witholding the 'marital due')
oh...right...'marital'...
guess i'll be getting that ring after all.
Good GOD you are too young to get married. 19?!? You should wait until 25 to get married. You change so much from 19 to 25 it's amazing.
oh...right...'marital'...
booyah! haha!
too young? nah....u forget, girls fully mature mentally at around 16....or is that physically?....
oh well....i still wanna know...
luv, kitty (of the feels that maybe she shouldn't have posted her age on her avatar class)
if he did ask you to marry him please tell me that you'd say no. for god's sake you are only 19!! Happy birthday Kitty! I agree with Jared's post - in spite of the fact that you say you are a very mature 19 year old. Maybe I missed it - but how old is your boyfriend? How mature is he? Here is where I am coming from: I got married at 19 (wifey was 18). We were a lot more mature than most 19 year olds (at least we thought so) and because we were totally immersed in the borg, getting married was a prerequisite to sex! Almost 32 years later we are still happily married - and have survived some major crisis over the years. Unfortunately, for most teen marriages the odds are NOT in your favor long term. There is so much life that you have not experienced. Your view of what's important is going to change a lot, and what you like in your boy friend now, MAY become annoying later on. Have seen so many young marriages break up because one or the other partner matures faster - OR because you have not sowed enough "wild oats" before marriage - the temptation to do so takes over when the "initial thrill" starts to subside. Have either of you considered college? How about getting education/career etc going first? Put off having kids until those items are securely in place - otherwise you may never get the chance to realize your full potential. How about a prenuptial agreement and waiting until you are in your mid 20's? You may not have much in the way of money and assets now, but that WILL change. If you break up or get divorced that piece of paper could save you or him $$$$$ and a lot of pain. You will probably ignore my advice (I ignored my dad's - but fortunately things worked out for us! ) but I hope you will speak with family or friends who have some more life experience and seriously consider what they have to say. I have no idea what your boyfriend may surprise you with, but I wish you a happy life.
too young? nah....u forget, girls fully mature mentally at around 16....or is that physically?....
i've read that women reach their peak around 30-35 and for men its between 18 and 22 or so. but i think that's sexually. that's what you meant by physical, right?
makena...we're 10 years apart. he'll be 30 in august, i'll be 20 on the 22nd. he let me move in w/ him after dating for only 3 weeks b/c my jdub mom kicked me out when she found out we were together...he's not in the troof...we've been through a lot and i really feel we could make it. it's cool that u guys made it.
luv, kitty (of the hopeless romantic class)
that's what you meant by physical, right?
close enuff....haha!
luv, kitty
