Question on WT and Rape...Help Please..

by gsark 15 Replies latest jw friends

  • think41self
    think41self

    Larc,

    That is the funniest "freudian slip"? I have seen in a long time.

    Please don't shoot your head...it would make future conversation with you very difficult.

    think41self

    "When agnostics die, do they go to the great perhaps"?

  • soylibre
    soylibre

    Gsark....all I can say is I'm sorry for what you've been thru....first a physical rape and then a spiritual and emotional rape....keep your head up and your heart healthy and you'll be fine...Sorry, don't know much about JW policies anymore...da'd almost 4 years ago and threw all my literature in the trash....and it was A LOT...poor trashman!!!!! Take care!

  • Tina
    Tina

    ((((((((((((gsark))))))))))))) I'm so sorry you went thru that...
    It really infuriates me to hear how the wts re-victimized you.With their stupid insane talmudic vacillating policiy!!
    Nit=picking on screaming or not, totally misses the point that you SURVIVED such a trauma. My gawd would they prefer the victim dead??
    Rapists and the wts have something in common. They're both into domination and control. Only the methodology differs. One tortures using sex the other tortures thru mental control.
    Thank you for sharing gsark,what are painful memories...luv,T

  • wasasister
    wasasister

    I'm curious about one thing you said, gsark. You mentioned you still have a daughter "in". How does she view her mother being disfellowshipped because she was the victim of a crime? Seems to me, that would be pretty difficult for a daughter to rationalize.

    And may I add my sympathy for your ordeal, as well as my outrage towards the perpetrators.

    Was

  • gsark
    gsark

    wasa...I guess that's why JW's are developing the reputation of being a 'cult'. That's quite a feat of mind control isn't it?

    In any case it doesn't look as tho I can help her. Of the four kids I raised 'in the truth' (translation: dragged down with me)three are out and I guess it's time to be grateful for them. As far as the last one (she was the oldest and therefore was 'in' the longest) I just have to pray, like so many others on this board with family 'in'.

    Thank you wasa, and all you others, for your wonderful support.

    Life is a roller coaster. Get in, sit down, shut up and hang on!

  • JeffT
    JeffT

    I've been out since 1989, so I can't say anything about policy.

    I do have to say this: I am profoundly disturbed by what happened to you. In my opinion the men who DF'd you are as much criminals as the man who attacked you. I don't normally wish ill of people, but I wouldn't mind having five minutes with all of them and a baseball bat.

    I hope the support here as been helpful to you.

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