Dear Honesty,
It seems the tone of this thread is becoming hostile. I am sorry for that.
Perhaps it is due to your message of accept Jesus or suffer the consequences, is basically the very same as the Jehovah's Witnesses. The names may have changed, but the story line remains intact: do what I tell you or die. This is not love; it is however sociopathic insanity. Perhaps the very farthest thing from the caring of love. We can't expect caring people to not respond emotionally to that.
In my post above I mentioned your reference to Jesus' "unconditional love". Please let me say that I understand how you would want your deity -- who is the highest form of everything to you -- to express the highest form of love, which would be un-conditional. But the honest reality is that the scriptures which support him do not at all reflect such unconditional love. Here is a Christian website which presents scriptural proof that to believe in the Biblical God's unconditional love is to believe in a false doctrine; which is very honest of them. http://www.bereanpublishers.com/False_Doctrines/is_gods_love_unconditional.htm
I suggest Honesty, that if you respect your hearts wisdom that indeed if there is a God, it's love is UNCONDITIONAL, then you may have to step outside the tiny Biblical gods domain. There is far, far vaster understandings of God, if you but allow yourself to see.
You know, I too feel and perceive God's love as un-conditional; and I'm not a Christian. In fact I'm not a member of any belief system or religion; and yet, we may have more in common than you know. Then again, you may be of the mind to stand by your "unconditional loving" Lord as He kills every man, woman, and child on earth but you -- his humble worshipper. Then, we probably don't have all that much in common. Thank God.
j