I have a good friend who dreams about deaths. It had happened twice when she was a kid, before I knew her. About 15 years ago, she started having dreams about a beloved old family friend, Jock.
She talked to me about it, and said, "I know he is going to die in three months, and I'm really upset. This has happened to me before twice, and the dreams came true. And Jock is not sick or anything,,, I don't want to tell the family, because they will be worried, and there is nothing to be done to change it."
Well, sad to say, within 3 months Jock dropped dead of an aneurysm ... this is not a cool thing ... she dreads getting another one, and I hope it never happens to her again.
Totally spooked, she is.
As for me, I often get message from my friends through the airwaves. I just wrote someone a note the other day, telling her I felt she was in need of an extra-special hug. Well, sho nuff, she wrote back "how did you know?" *shrug* Same thing happens with my best friend. All I have to do is focus, and he will 'appear', usually bringing exactly what I was wishing for. I am just connected to my friends that way ... not spooky, just another form of communication that most folks have not mastered. That's what I think, anyways.
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