Hawaii??? Good for you!
My point is, a person could kill someone, and still not be an evil, cold-blooded murderer. Likewise, God could kill people and still not be an evil, cold-blooded God. It is possible.
Not to be thick, but even if my percentage was off by a point or so (which really is all I can imagine I might need to conceed here), you are speaking of the rare instance, and this discussion is of the common everday filthy murder, or the common everyday horror of people and children in lands in turmoil, or the common everyday genocide sold to us as Gods will in the bible. Wouldn't it be at least a bit more charitable to assume (at least until proven otherwise) that God does NOT engage in, or approve of, such horrific tragedy?
I could ask you your thoughts on the average Americans place and path in this world, relative to the life of some kiddo in, say, E Timor, and I could phrase my question in a very brutal way. It is, after all, a brutal subject. I won't do that, since your off on vacation soon. But, suffice it to say, that a "God is good, but we don't know his reasons" answer to a question about the foregoing, would seem trite in comparison to the moral weight of the issue.