Non physical aspects of relationships.

by greendawn 19 Replies latest jw friends

  • greendawn
    greendawn

    What is there in the opposite sex beyond the physical side that can add to a relationship? Do you believe that for a relationship to be complete and meaningful these other hard to define abstract elements have to be operative in it?

  • HadEnuf
    HadEnuf

    I think the most important thing in any relationship is just being BEST friends. When you choose to spend your life with someone and hope that it IS forever, until death puts an end to it...if you don't LIKE the person as the years go by; you're doomed. Sex is important; but being friends is more important .

    cathy l.

  • kls
    kls

    I have to totally agree with the wise HadEnuf ,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,,cause if i don't she will lock me up in a room

  • mkr32208
    mkr32208

    My dad always said

    "you can't have sex 24 hours a day... at least not for very long... so what do you do for the OTHER 23 hours?"

    A relationship built just on sex won't last!

    of course it will be fun while it last...

  • stillajwexelder
    stillajwexelder

    Absolutely -just the shear femininity of women I love - the feeling and listening quality - the ability to shed aa littel tear -all add to the aura and mystery of women - they are hard to define and I am struggling to put into words - but these are just as - if not more important - than physical aspects. The verbal tones in the voice also I love

  • JH
    JH
    Sex is important; but being friends is more important .

    Rat agrees completely...

  • HadEnuf
    HadEnuf

    Yeah you better agree with me monkey person...or I'll lock you up in a room with Mr. Rat!!!

    cathy l.

  • wanderlustguy
    wanderlustguy

    I just saw my best friend after not speaking a word to her for years. Just being with her made me happier than I have ever been since we parted. It wasn't the sex that made it great, it wasn't the things we said to each other that we both agreed on or laughed about.

    It was the things we didn't have to say that meant so much, the explanations you would normally have to give or the excuses for your actions you may have to give. The best part is being with someone who knows all the bad things about you, and loves you anyway.

  • RichieRich
    RichieRich
    The best part is being with someone who knows all the bad things about you, and loves you anyway.

    Word. I couldn't have said it better myself... Nothing like a lady friend.

  • whyamihere
    whyamihere

    Lovers vs. friends?

    Hell .......just talk while you have sex!

    Brooke

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