Anyone?
Let's start with this statement
Who most often commits domestic violence?
Overwhelmingly, it's heterosexual men in relationships. However, if we refer just to the act of hitting or physically hurting another person, research statistics from the 1980's and early 1990's shows women are as likely or more likely than men to hit or physically harm a partner
What the heck is that supposed to mean? OK, so if a man hits, or hurts a woman, it's domestic violence, but if a woman does it,it's not?
However, in comparison, a man's reaction to a woman's violence is usually far less emotionally traumatic than a woman's reaction to a man's violent acts. The emotional reaction for men being hit by a woman is usually annoyance, anger and self-righteousness. The male might think, "She's got a lot of nerve, who does she think she is laying her hands on me".In contrast, the reaction for women is far more traumatic, most often involving varying amounts of fear or terror. When a 180-lb man who's been trained to punch, punches a 130lb woman, she's going to feel a lot different than when the 130-lb woman punches the 180lb man. Both because of physical size, and because of mind-set; women are not trained to think they can defend themselves; men are trained to think they can
Bullsh*t. This assumes WAYYYY too much. What is she hitting you with? How hard? Plus, an enraged woman coming after you is wayy scary. You KNOW you can't hit back. You can't defend yourself, most men have also been trained to NEVER hit a woman. Also, What if the woman is 180, and the guy is 130? What if they're both the same size? I understand the sentiment, but to say that being attacked by a pissed off woman who is supposed to love you is mereley "annoying" is crazy. Don't get me wrong, I hate domestic violence from men and given half a chance I'll put a wife beater where they belong, and you'll just have to use your imagination on which county facility that is. BUT I am SOOO pissed that the far left victim feminist wing has co-opted domestic viloence to the point to where violent PEOPLE , If they are'nt straight males are allowed to cop out. I used to see this every day in the group home. A man would hit his kid too hard, he'd get jail which is fine. A woman would put her kid in the HOSPITAL and due tho these same stinking stats and victim bullsh*t would get counseling and get her kids back in two weeks and put them back in the HOSPITAL again two weeks later. I hate this bullsh*t. Same with women child molesters
OK, next.
Don't lesbian and gay people batter too?
Yes. In fact, in recent years we’ve been finding much higher numbers than suspected in lesbian and gay relationships. There is a slightly different dynamic in these relationships than in heterosexual relationships. The lesbian and gay battering situations often involve the inability to deal with the frustration and burdens of living in a homophobic society. There are also similar issues, present in heterosexual marriages, (children, money, things like that), but these issues become an even greater problem with gay couples because they don’t have as much support from family or friends during these rough times. In fact, some families don’t even know that their child is in a gay relationship.
So, gay people beat each other up because of "gay rage?" I thought people beat people up because they were a-holes, personally.
Growing up in a violent home makes you gay?These societal factors often times contribute along with more common factors like growing up in a violent home, self-hatred, and poor impulse control
See? No accountability. If the guy was black, hispanic, etc., no out. Gay, go beat the crap outta your partner, we understand, you've been oppressed.
I have marched in parades with my queer buddies. I'm str8 but not narrow. This is SOOOOO damn insulting to gays, it's not even funny.