Are you generous?

by JH 24 Replies latest jw friends

  • JH
    JH
    I like to hand out little packets of heroin to street people so their lives will dissolve into nothingness and premature death.

    You can also hand them a Watchtower and an Awake while you're at it...

  • jeanniebeanz
    jeanniebeanz

    Yeah, I'm one of those people who pitches in the couple bucks that the person in front of me at the grocery store is short. I won't give money to people who are pan-handlers, but routinely buy them food and sometimes an item they need. Saw one guy struggling to read instructions on a form through cracked lenses and asked if he would accept a pair of reading glasses from me, he said yes so I bought them. I've paid for peoples prescriptions at the drugstore, and immunizations for peoples kids at the low cost clinic, and pitched in lifes necessities I don't know how many times at the womens shelter and the convalescent home.

    I've always worked so it was not a big hardship or anything. I have always feared ending up on the street, especially with a little kid. I see mom's in that situation and I see my own worst nightmare.

  • Sunspot
    Sunspot

    Why Georgia,

    I have never heard of that "freecycle!" What a GREAT concept!

    I know about LINUS.org where people that knit or crochet can make and send blankets to kids in the hospitals.

    We have a "mitten tree" in the local village schools, where people can donate mittens for cold little hands. They are pinned on a Christmas Tree in each school entrance way. Anyone can take a pair.

    There is a winter coat drive in one of the grocery stores in the next town---all they need to be is clean and free of rips and tears.

    When I was in the Nursing Home a while back, there was a lady that used to come in with handmade lap-blankets for the patients. Some of those older ones in wheelchairs are always cold and these mini-blankets are perfect for them.

    There are so many ways to help folks out this way...

    Annie

  • Frog
    Frog

    I'd like to think so, but sometimes it can be tough when you get bogged down with your own trivial affairs. Every little while I like to give myself a reality check and assess that I haven't become too self-centred. I've done a fair bit of voluntary work, and really enjoy it, but I've also come to realise that no-one does something for nothing. Even if it's just from the satisfaction of doing something which gives you personal meaning, or allows you to live in good conscience. I find myself feeling incredibly moved when I see people doing things for strangers that they don't have to do, but feel compelled to do. I think in general, most people are humanitarians, and are very generous on their own level. frog

  • Es
    Es

    I am a very giving person but lately ive learnt that i need to be very selective to whom I am generous too. Ive just gotten to the point where sometimes i feel i am being taken for granted and im getting a little tired of it.

  • sonnyboy
    sonnyboy

    I'm conditionally generous.

  • Sparkplug
    Sparkplug
    I am a very giving person but lately ive learnt that i need to be very selective to whom I am generous too. Ive just gotten to the point where sometimes i feel i am being taken for granted and im getting a little tired of it.

    Es... I so understand.

    And in reply, yes I am giving to a fault at times.

    There is a corner in Dallas that I have to always stop at on my way to school and even when I am late or broke, etc, I have to share with the homless person renting the spot..cigarette, water, bubble gum. I can just hear them calling me cheap a55 all the time I drive away.

  • Why Georgia
    Why Georgia

    Sunspot,

    I am a quilter so I have made lots of quilts for Projectlinus.org. It is such a worthy organization - giving the blanket hugs to kids.

    The kids love the blankets and if it makes there day a little better that is the best!

    WG

  • dh
    dh

    i find helping people is rewarding, and i mean actually physical help, or emotional help... i have found that when this crosses over to giving money, things change. i am someone people can count on if they are in real shit, but i will help push someones car if they can't start it, or change a wheel for someone on the side of the road if they are unable. but i think this is courtesy more than generosity... i find that being generous all the time makes people think you are a soft touch, then when you put them back in their place, it can spoil the relationship. i give to charities sometimes, but not nearly enough.

  • ozziepost
    ozziepost
    I love giving and helping people. Makes me feel good.

    What a good boy you are!

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