NEW JW book arrived in mail... (page 2)

DaCheech

How about doing the "blondie" type study and highlight the book in such, then send it back

blondie

Burn the book halfway and send it in the mail, ROFL :) Then he should get the hint!

Now that made me chuckle. Shelley, check back with Kim Norris with that e-mail and see if it helps. A lot of the legal aspects of this depend on the statute of limitations in the state he assaulted you in. I can empathize since my father assaulted me with my mother's full knowledge. I know how I would feel if either of them sent me the new book. Love, Blondie

rebel8

crazyblonde, I hope you really don't think it would be evil to report him to the elders! It's not. It's justice! In fact, you could write them a letter and quote the "Bible's counsel to come forward when you are aware of a person's wrongdoing" and then let them know what happened.

I like the idea of burning the book halfway and sending it back. Include a little note that said you were following the Bible's counsel to burn demonized books but the demons in it must be really strong because it wouldn't burn all the way!!! Say you saw a ghostly smurf rise from the smoke and it screamed at you the words, "We have infiltrated the WTS!" Say this in a serious way so they think it really happened. Maybe they won't believe you, but a part of them will be really wondering! LOL!!

Just some ideas to send their whacked out logic back at them. Makes it harder for them to excuse their actions.

I used to rip up my mother's stuff and mail it back to her. Now I've told her if she ever sends me anything again I will not accept any mail at all from her. If she uses email to witness, I'll block her email. If she talks about it, I won't speak to her ever again. That happened about 6 months ago, and so far she's behaving herself. I wish I thought of these other ideas though--it would have been much more fun!

Mary

I'm with Iggy------get a copy of Crisis of Conscience off of www.amazon.com and send it to him with a note that says "..I'll read the book you sent me if you read this one."

Sounds like you've been through hell. You're a much better person than me that you've been able to forgive him for molesting you. If someone had done that to me they'd be going six feet under.

Sirona

(((HUGS))))

Honestly I don't think that you should have to ever speak to either of them again. Your step-dad molested you and your mother even walked in and didn't do anything about it? If that had happened to me I would certainly never speak to them again.

Definately seek legal advice again and show them that email!

In fact, wouldn't the police be interested in that email too? Do you know that sex offenders rarely are cured. What if he does this to someone else?

Sirona

RichieRich

Just burn the books!

or sell them on eBay!!

NeonMadman

Dang, if you really don't want it that bad, send it to me! I'll even pay the postage. My "other" supplier for JW literature seems to have dried up...

Forscher

Hey there Crazyblonde! The forgiveness thing was a good move. It will help you to heal and move on. I'd just say to ignore the attempts to get you back in the fold and get on with the rest of your journey toward healing. Don't even acknowledge reciept of the book. That way , you empower yourself in a manner that helps you rise above it all. As for the book, if you don't want it, eithr destroy it or take Neonmadman up on his offer. Which ever you prefer. Forscher

katiekitten

CBD how awful for you to be preached to by those evil abusers (one did it, one knew, they are both as bad).

god i feel so angry for you I cant compose a proper reply. Id sure like to bust their asses for you. Im not much help, sorry.

luna2

You are a bigger person than I crazyblonde! I agree with katiekitten and the all the others who harbor vengeful thoughts...grrrrr. How could a mother do that? How could she know that her kids were being abused and turn aside? I doubt I will ever, ever be able to understand. In my mind a mother who allows that is equally guilty as the actual abuser. UGH!

I'd go ahead and give his wonderful gift away. Maybe let dear old stepdad know you gave it to apostates to play with.

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