I was in there for 15 years, my wife for 30 (all her life) years. We were very dedicated. We came out because of a matter of abuse and the elders just went on covering it up not to bring “reproach on J’s name”, so they said. We could not be part of such hypocrisy anymore. We investigated and realized that most of the rules were man made with scriptures misapplied. One year later we were celebrating birthdays, Christmas, Easter, mothers day, fathers day, Childs day, dogs day, cats day, shi*s day, whatever day we could find to celebrate. We have never been so happy in our lives. There is not a single scripture that one can point to me in the bible about not celebrating birthdays. JW’s base the celebrating on 2 scriptures just because a person was killed on each occasion. I am sure that many witnesses die per year by car accident, is that stopping them from driving a car????? NO! They should in fact follow Jesus foot steps and rid on an ass.